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Inspiration > How Do We Forgive Our Fathers?

~ From end of the movie, "Smoke Screen"

How do we forgive our fathers...?

Maybe in a dream?

Do we forgive our fathers for leaving us too often
– or forever –
when we were little?

Maybe for scaring us with unexpected rage,
or making us nervous
because there never seemed to be any rage there at all?

Do we forgive our fathers for marrying
– or not marrying –
our mothers?

Or for divorcing
– or not divorcing –
our mothers?

And shall we forgive them for their excesses of warmth
…or coldness?

Shall we forgive them for pushing,
or leaning,
or shutting doors,
or speaking through walls,
or never speaking,
or never being silent?

Do we forgive our fathers in our age
...or in theirs?

Or, in their deaths?

Saying it to them, or not saying it?

If we forgive our fathers, what is left...?

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